“……..Whatever you wish for others is whatever you wish for yourself and those are exactly the same amount in the subconscious level. However many people are carrying the negative karma of “wishing for unhappiness syndrome”. ……..
So, anyway, how to be relieved from this “wishing for unhappiness syndrome”? The only way is to wish for the happiness of others and to live for that. This is because by doing this you will be able to start to allow yourself to be happy which is the start of having relief from the wishing for unhappiness syndrome karma.…….
I do wish that you start wishing for the happiness of others, not only wishing but actively living for that…………”
Please listen to the full talk below. Thank you
Hope Warriors Dharma Talk 